Now i know that headline is corny as hell, but as unappropriate as it seems it is kind of is me.  I hope that you enjoy this blog so put up your feet ,got a warm cup of tea/coffee ? sit back and relax .Todays topic is……………..(drum roll)………………..Being You , now all of you will probably think oh goodness not this again but don’t close the laptop this is not boring nor will it ever be ……….

At this moment in life you need to close your eyes ,breathe in and out making sure you take good breathes in and long 7 second breathes out ,smile and clear your mind .now open your eyes and say i love where ,what i am and  what i have today.To easily in life we go out ,taking on the rat races,looking at others  lives and saying “oh my if only i was her/him” ,if only i had that kind of money , instead of saying those words start saying I AM , ME .I will forever be till the day I die and if I never die ill be me .In life we find it hard being ourselves always trying the get rich quickly ,trying to put on an act because we are scared of how others perceive us  ,and being a this or that when the inside of you is screaming to hold on to what you like /are and not what society thinks of you , you are a strong person maybe not physically but mentally and emotionally and if physically to then that’s a bonus …..to get through life and come this far you are strong .In many times of struggle people find themselves ,why find yourself then,when you can find yourself today .Do something today that truly makes you happy , smile even when you find it the hardest ,laugh instead of crying ,talk instead of listening ,listen instead of talking and be the real you ,I cant help but wonder if you aren’t you then who is you and who are you ? That’s why being lame using an Adele piece of lyric is who I am  so be you .My challenge to you  today is that you will be you , you wont fall back into the habit of being anyone else but you .you will stand tall,be proud of you and what you are ,who cares what size,shape or colour you may be if you are happy then who is the world to judge .Strut your stuff .Inspire ,Help others and do good to others as you would like to be treated .But most of all things put your big girl/big boy undies and panties on and BE THE BEST YOU, YOU CAN BE

xoxoxoxo

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